Saturday, May 28, 2022

Snow

It was as if her jaw was stuck, it had been hanging open for so long. Because the sight in front of her, what she had witnessed a few times now, still did not cease to amaze her, even though it appeared to be the way, in fact the very nature, of the small, furry creature she had acquired. 

Chris had known from the time she'd set eyes on the tuxedo cat that they were one. The sweet black and white cat seemed to have a heart made of pure, solid gold. Back at the shelter, the cat she'd adopted had been glued to the side of another, who, when Taylor looked closer, seemed a bit miserable. Her tuxedo cat had gone between the cats who appeared the saddest, brushing up close against them and sometimes licking them if they'd allow it, until the other cats appeared a little happier. It was as if these other cats each had their own personal storm cloud bucketing rain down upon them. Then, Chris's tuxedo cat had come along, like a little way of sunshine to brighten their day and provide a little reprieve from the rain. Chris had immediately been captivated. The impact seemed profound; each of the others her tuxedo cat had touched was somewhat changed by the presence, companionship and comfort the little tuxedo cat provided. Their moods were lifted, their spirits made brighter, their day just that little bit better. 

Upon arriving home, Chris's cat had gravitated straight toward her unwell and understandably grumpy grandfather. His demeanour remained, as if Chris's grandfather was determined to stay mad and grumpy. As if he preferred it. As if it were better. But, the little tuxedo cat also remained in position, perched on one arm of his lounge chair. 
Disgust and disapproval in his eyes, Chris's grandfather slowly looked up to meet her gaze. "What'd you bring this thing home for then?" He eyed the cat. 
"I thought you might be able to use a companion," Chris ventured carefully. 
Her grandfather 'hmmphed'. 
"And I thought that maybe, I might benefit from a friend." 
His gaze softened, just a slight fraction. His 'mmm' carried with it a very tiny hint at approval. 

Chris's attention returned to her new feline friend, still perched on the arm of her grandfather's chair. Her cat's gaze was on him, gentle and unthreatening. Chris's cat seemed to recognise there had been a crack in the older man's resolve, and this was the perfect chance to pounce. Slow and steady, paws padded closer until smooth, soft fur met wrinkly skin. 

Suddenly, Chris's grandfather seemed to snap out of the spell their new friend had momentarily cast him under and leaned back and away from the cat. His eyes found his granddaughter's. Chris searched them to find something of the cat's spell had remained. Though her grandfather still seemed stiff, his resolve, and demeanour with it, had softened some. 
Chris couldn't help smiling, just a little. "See? I told you it'd be good for you." 
"Has it got a name?" 
"Not yet." 
"Boy or girl?" 
"Dunno." 
Chris held her breath while her grandfather thought. It took great strength for her to maintain the tiny smile on her face while she watched her grandfather absentmindedly reach out to touch her cat, who moved back and forth beneath his hand to facilitate a pat. 

It was only when Chris and her grandfather awoke and wandered through the house the following morning that she thought of a name for their new companion. A little of her grandfather's grumpiness had returned at the sight of the state their house had been left in. 
"The cat found the tissues," he observed, voice rough with disdain. 
Chris wanted to laugh. On the floor were countless tiny fragments of tissues, scattered everywhere. A smile did crack her lips as her cat appeared before them. "Snow."  

Monday, May 16, 2022

Like Me

 The young child's face crumpled with confusion. They tipped their head slightly to the side and narrowed their gaze. Maybe it would make more sense if they focused in? Maybe not too, the child decided, straightening again as they shook their head. "I don't understand." Their small voice emerged in a whisper. "I just don't get it. "   

"Understand what?" The child's mother lowered herself into a equation order to meet their eyes at the same level. 

The child pointed, a disapproving scowl forming on their lips. 

She followed their finger. The screen to which her child was pointing was set to the news, which was covering a story about someone getting abused. 


"They like rainbows," her young child observed. She noticed the rainbow flag the person wore draped across their shoulders and her understanding set in. 

"Likely." Their mother answered. "They might also be part of the LGBTIQA+ community, Sam." 

Sam stared back at their mother for a while. "L, G, B, T...." They started to spell out, taking care with each letter. "Q, I, A, plus. That's a lot of letters!" 

Sam's mother couldn't help her laughter. "It is, but they all mean something." 

"What do they mean?" Sam's eyes sparkled with inquiry. 

With a small smile, Sam's mother explained each letter, one by one. "... and the plus is to represent other letters that aren't there or that come to mean something to the community." 


"I still don't understand." Sam said after a long while spent deep in thought. They pointed again. "Why are they getting hurt? Is it because they might be part of the LGB..." Sam stopped, starting to trip over the letters. The order was getting a little muddled in their brain. Sam took a breath, setting their jaw. "TQIA+ community?" 

Sam's mother sighed. "Yeah, that's likely." 

"But why?" Sam asked again. "I don't understand. They're kinda like me." 


Sam's father's brows danced as he caught the end of Sam's statement. 

"What do you mean?" Sam's mother asked. "Kinda like you?" 

Sam smiled bigger. "Well," they shook their head as they laughed. The answer seemed obvious! "I'm alive, they're alive." 

Sam's parents tensed slightly, though Sam didn't notice. 

"Also, they're a person, and I'm a person too!" Sam's grin grew bigger still. Their laughter was contagious, and Sam's parents couldn't help joining in, their tension at the possibilities of that person who'd been abused starting to ease. 

"That's very true, Sam." Their father said. "We are all people, we're all human." 

"So why..." Sam started to ask. 


Sam's parents said nothing for a time. They glanced at each other, then back at their inquisitive and kind hearted child. 

"There's really no good answer for that Sam," their father answered. 

"Some people are really mean and awful," Sam's mother continued. "Sometimes because they're hurting themselves, but other times, there's no good reason at all." 

Sam shook their head. "People shouldn't be mean." 

"No, they shouldn't." Sam's mother agreed. 

 "It's not nice to be not nice." 

"No, it's not." Sam's father affirmed. 


Sam's father took their hand in his. "It doesn't matter who else someone likes, what colour their skin might be, what religion they believe in, what abilities they might have, or anything else." 

Everyone deserves to be treated nicely." Sam's mother finished, taking Sam's spare hand with one of her own. "Do you know why?" She looked back at Sam. 

"Because..." Sam stopped, thinking. "Because we're all people. They're like me." 

"And me." Their mother squeezed Sam's hand. 

"And me." Sam's father said. "There are ways we might be different, but what counts is that there are also ways we're all the same."   

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Rainbow friends; today and every day, I stand with you. ❤️๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿค๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿ–ค 

For a list of terms relevant to the LGBTIQA+ community, head here. You can find more general information here.  And for LGBTQIA+ specific support, there's QLife in Australia, the LGBTQIA Resource Center's directory to find support in America and the ILGA directory to help you find support in Europe and Asia.